As soon as Ryzvan signed in from work today, I asked him something that both of us would describe as a, "raat-khanay-ke-liye-kya-pakaoon?" while-at work kind of question: untimely, unnecessary and irrelevant.
Funny thing is, I had realized just how wifey I am capable of sounding as soon as I had asked that particular thing, and alhamdo lillah he was honest enough to reply that it's a question he really cannot answer as well as I could; and so I breathed a sigh of relief and smiled. He's as honest as I'd like him to be and alhamdo lillah, more honest than I wouldn't on certain occassions. That, and I made a mental note of checking myself before interrupting his work to ask him something.
Such are the fringe benefits of being friends long before anything else - the emotional hypochondria which makes me sense his reaction to a general situation, even when I am the one creating it for him, and effectively admitting to the sheer silliness of the matter. Alhamdo lillah for honesty and all its instances.
Emotional Hypochondria At Its Best
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